Thank you Clive, for taking the time to read and respond and share your thoughts. I'm not offended.

Admittedly, after a pretty rough week and feeling tired from treatment, the "choose your hard" that kept popping up on social media was frustrating. I was mad about my situation and tired of well meaning people tell me to think of the "good" things. I just wanted a nap and to be done.

I appreciate your perspective. Cheers.